Landing a date during your first chat on Tinder
Making a match is only the first step. Once you’ve got a connection on Tinder you need to open the conversation in a way that will stand apart – chances are she has a lot of guys matched and all trying to get her attention. Pay attention to the details – she will. A little bit of effort here will go a long way in making your match worthwhile and improving your chances of landing a first date with your match.
Follow these tips for chatting on Tinder to improve your odds.
- Girls want to feel special. If you go into it thinking it’s a numbers game, they can tell. Pick up on small details about her and ask her follow-up questions. Abstract questioning Think about a topic based on how you can steer it toward feelings.
- Use an opening question for your profile that is different from others. If she can reply with an answer, you have an instant starting point. Base it around a value you find important. This is a critical step for successful chatting on tinder.
- When asking someone on a date, it’s nice to say you have somewhere to be in an hour or two. This way, the pressure to have sex is completely off for the woman, freeing her up to be more flirty and test the waters. (girls like a chase too. Especially ones who aren’t used to chasing).
These are only the basics. And remember that chatting on Tinder is very different than chatting on other dating sites (like chatting on Coffee Meets Bagel). Stay tuned for more advanced tips and techniques on how to get the conversation going, keep it going, and land a date. Swiping on Tinder is only the first step…